Sama tapi tak serupa?

Apa yang akan Anda lakukan bila Anda menemukan dua karya ilmiah yang nyaris sama?

Definisi dari nyaris sama adalah:

• Obyeknya nyaris sama. Sama-sama tentang perbandingan transport, hanya beda moda yang dibahas.
• Dasar teorinya sama, urutannya sama, kontennya sama, kecuali sedikit perbedaan di sub bab Peta Penelitian.
• Datanya sama. Yap. Sama. Plek2an. Jumlah kuesioner sama. Jumlah variabelnya sama. Hasil kuesioner pun sepertinya sama, saya hanya mengambil acak sampel untuk data responden ke 31 s/d 40 dan responden ke 50.

Kira-kira berapa probabilitas kejadiannya untuk terjadi hal semacam ini secara kebetulan?

Kedua karya ilmiah ini berselang 4 tahun dan berasal dari jurusan yang berbeda.


Nah, jadi apa yang akan Anda lakukan?

a. Laporkan pada Kaprodi, yang mana hal tersebut pastinya akan berdampak pada kemungkinan dicabutnya status sarjana seseorang.

b. Laporkan pada pembimbing Anda, yang mungkin juga akan terjadi resiko seperti di atas.

c. Laporkan pada pembimbing penulis karya ilmiah yang bersangkutan, idem.

d. Sudahlah lupakan saja. Toh, banyak juga kejadian seperti ini.



Jawaban:......

bosan. bingung. not in the mood.

Saya tidak tahu mau menulis apa. Atau tidak mood. Atau sudah bosan. Entahlah.
Yah, maaf kalau untuk beberapa waktu ke depan tidak akan ada yang baru disini.

Eniwei, mohon maaf lahir bathin temans! Semoga Lebaran ini kita kembali fitrah.
(kan bentar lagi lebaran).

Oprah at Standford

Saya mengutip pidato Oprah di upacara kelulusan di Stanford University. Semoga memberikan sesuatu yang berguna, terutama bagi teman-teman saya yang akan segera lulus Oktober ini. :)
I found this quite inspiring.

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Learning is really in the broadest sense what I want to talk about today, because your education, of course, isn't ending here. In many ways, it's only just begun.

The world has so many lessons to teach you. I consider the world, this Earth, to be like a school and our life the classrooms. And sometimes here in this Planet Earth school the lessons often come dressed up as detours or roadblocks. And sometimes as full-blown crises. And the secret I've learned to getting ahead is being open to the lessons, lessons from the grandest university of all, that is, the universe itself.

The three lessons that have had the greatest impact on my life have to do with feelings, with failure and with finding happiness.

So, here I am, 22, making $22,000 a year and, yet, it didn't feel right. It didn't feel right. The first sign, as President Hennessy was saying, was when they tried to change my name. The news director said to me at the time, "Nobody's going to remember Oprah. So, we want to change your name. We've come up with a name we think that people will remember and people will like. It's a friendly name: Suzie."

So, I grew up not loving the name, but once I was asked to change it, I thought, well, it is my name and do I look like a Suzie to you? So, I thought, no, it doesn't feel right. I'm not going to change my name. And if people remember it or not, that's OK.

And then they said they didn't like the way I looked. This was in 1976, when your boss could call you in and say, "I don't like the way you look." Now that would be called a lawsuit, but back then they could just say, "I don't like the way you look." Which, in case some of you in the back, if you can't tell, is nothing like Barbara Walters. So, they sent me to a salon where they gave me a perm, and after a few days all my hair fell out and I had to shave my head. And then they really didn't like the way I looked.

But even worse than being bald, I really hated, hated, hated being sent to report on other people's tragedies as a part of my daily duty, knowing that I was just expected to observe, when everything in my instinct told me that I should be doing something, I should be lending a hand.

And after eight months, I lost that job. They said I was too emotional. I was too much. But since they didn't want to pay out the contract, they put me on a talk show in Baltimore. And the moment I sat down on that show, the moment I did, I felt like I'd come home. I realized that TV could be more than just a playground, but a platform for service, for helping other people lift their lives. And the moment I sat down, doing that talk show, it felt like breathing. It felt right. And that's where everything that followed for me began.

And I got that lesson. When you're doing the work you're meant to do, it feels right and every day is a bonus, regardless of what you're getting paid.

It's true. And how do you know when you're doing something right? How do you know that? It feels so. What I know now is that feelings are really your GPS system for life.

If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. That's the lesson. And that lesson alone will save you, my friends, a lot of grief. Even doubt means don't. This is what I've learned. There are many times when you don't know what to do. When you don't know what to do, get still, get very still, until you do know what to do.

So, I say to you, forget about the fast lane. If you really want to fly, just harness your power to your passion. Honor your calling. Everybody has one. Trust your heart and success will come to you.

But having a lot of money does not automatically make you a successful person. What you want is money and meaning. You want your work to be meaningful. Because meaning is what brings the real richness to your life. What you really want is to be surrounded by people you trust and treasure and by people who cherish you. That's when you're really rich.

So, lesson one, follow your feelings. If it feels right, move forward. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it.

Now I want to talk a little bit about failings, because nobody's journey is seamless or smooth. We all stumble. We all have setbacks. If things go wrong, you hit a dead end—as you will—it's just life's way of saying time to change course.

So, ask every failure—this is what I do with every failure, every crisis, every difficult time—I say, what is this here to teach me? And as soon as you get the lesson, you get to move on. If you really get the lesson, you pass and you don't have to repeat the class.

Whatever you resist persists. But, if you ask the right question—not why is this happening, but what is this here to teach me?—it puts you in the place and space to get the lesson you need.

So, it's a lesson that applies to all of our lives as a whole. What matters most is what's inside. What matters most is the sense of integrity, of quality and beauty. I got that lesson.

Not a small topic this is, finding happiness. But in some ways I think it's the simplest of all. Gwendolyn Brooks wrote a poem for her children. It's called "Speech to the Young : Speech to the Progress-Toward." And she says at the end, "Live not for battles won. / Live not for the-end-of-the-song. / Live in the along." She's saying, like Eckhart Tolle, that you have to live for the present. You have to be in the moment. Whatever has happened to you in your past has no power over this present moment, because life is now.

But I think she's also saying, be a part of something. Don't live for yourself alone. This is what I know for sure: In order to be truly happy, you must live along with and you have to stand for something larger than yourself.

To be happy, you have to give something back.

The lesson here is clear, and that is, if you're hurting, you need to help somebody ease their hurt. If you're in pain, help somebody else's pain. And when you're in a mess, you get yourself out of the mess helping somebody out of theirs.

I hope you strive for more than just the good feeling that service provides, because I know this for sure, that doing good actually makes you better. So, whatever field you choose, if you operate from the paradigm of service, I know your life will have more value and you will be happy.

Whether you've been called, as so many of you here today getting doctorates and other degrees, to the professions of business, law, engineering, humanities, science, medicine, if you choose to offer your skills and talent in service, when you choose the paradigm of service, looking at life through that paradigm, it turns everything you do from a job into a gift.
And I know you haven't spent all this time at Stanford just to go out and get a job.

You have the heart and the smarts to go with it. And it's up to you to decide, really, where will you now use those gifts? You've got the diploma, so go out and get the lessons, 'cause I know great things are sure to come.

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Or watch the edited video here.